I have made many mistakes. Multiple times. Many of the things that I call out as boundaries, or as toxic relationship tropes are the very things I have myself done.
In fact, it’s not just not many. It is probably most. The ones that I don’t think I have done, are probably things I have done and simply forgotten about.
If by some miraculous chance that I have not committed a mistake that I seem to be writing (and implicitly complaining about), then I most certainly lacked self-awareness and permitted myself to be subjected to it by a partner which in itself is a huge mistake. On Setting Boundaries
Any similarity between what I write on this site and what may be perceived by others as to reflect upon a shared experience in the past with them is simply a coincidence and has no bearing with reality, other than as being a reflection of exactly as I perceive and remember the experiences and I feel to be 100% true and factual…